I was thinking the other day, when it comes to couples, both people have their ideal 'other half' in mind- what they think they deserve. But for all this is okay, is there stuff we need to accept or does that stuff need to change?
Very often, married couples seperate and I was wondering why.
As Christians, God is constantly moulding us throughout our lives, so our personalities change and quite often, the person you married, is not the person you're with. In my eyes, couples either grow together or grow apart..
When 'falling' for the perfect guy, we have ideas of what we want. If the guy suddenly shows aspects that we don't like, I often get rid, knowing that I cannot compromise what I want and what I think God wants for me. Do we, therefore, have to accept those parts that we aren't keen on and take them on the chin, or remain faithful to what we think and don't adapt our 'essentials' in a bloke.
The only problem is, is that we ca set our standards too high and perfection cannot be found.
But does this mean should settle for second best or accept the fact that people are human and we are constantly becoming closer to perfection by Christ?
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